There’s Gnome Place Like Home

Potted plants with garden gnomes

Much of my fiction is set in a place that resembles my hometown of National City, California and some of my characters live in a house that resembles the National City house I grew up in. I’ll argue that these similarities are due not to writerly laziness or lack of imagination, but to an emotional attachment to a place that inspired a deeper connection to the characters I was creating.

In the backyard of that National City house, my father built us kids a playhouse. The character Johnny in my novel When the de la Cruz Family Danced also built his kids a playhouse, which aged like ours did.

The playhouse eventually became the repository for all things broken and superfluous, mostly rusted garden tools, cracked planters, coils of old hoses, and crumbling statuary. The curtains had come down long ago. It was a toolshed. But Johnny knew that in the dusty corners and in the cracks of the floorboards were lodged a tiny Barbie shoe or a peeling rubber ball or some other long-discarded relic of childhood.

The front yard of the National City house went through various phases of earnest and inexpert landscaping. At one time it resembled this description from When the de la Cruz Family Danced:

He lowered himself carefully into one of the faded redwood-stained chairs on the little square of lawn. Plastic deer grazed around him and ceramic squirrels posed in mid-scamper. Orange monkeyflower, red geraniums, and something yellow and bitter-smelling struggled from bulky planters that tilted on a jagged quilt of rocks—white, gray, and baby-girl pink. A hibiscus next to the driveway twisted on itself with unpruned growth. Down near the sidewalk, a small tree dangled its thin limbs that shed sticky red filaments on passers-by. He and this anemic garden were enclosed by a chain-link fence, flimsy protection in a neighborhood that had grown vulnerable over the years.

My mother decorated the interior of the National City house with ceramic roosters, birdhouses that housed no birds, and potted plants, most of which were fake. In the story “When Danny Got Married” in my story collection Hola and Goodbye, there’s this description by the character Julia:

My mother cultivated a plastic garden of ivy and fern—not from pots or vases, but from the heads of shepherdesses or the bellies of trolls, various body parts of ceramic figurines she painted and glazed herself at the community center adult craft classes.

I wanted to convey how these characters put their dreams and desires into their surroundings and, in a sense, became their surroundings. Like them, my parents worked hard to buy the first, last, and only house they would ever own and to make it a home that even with time and inevitable decline would cling to its original promise of shelter and protection.

Recently I had been thinking about no longer placing my fiction in the fictional place of Kimball Park or in the fictional house across from a park and next to a ballfield like the National City house my siblings and I grew up in. It was time to move on, I thought, to another residence in another locale. And because the universe likes to play mind games through bizarre coincidences and quirky correlations, it decided to remove the house from my life. My older sister who owned the house and lived there with another sister decided to sell it. It was time for them to move on. I’m the outlier sibling, the only one that left Southern California and I didn’t get to say a proper goodbye to the house. But over the years, every time I left after a visit was a small goodbye, and I suppose all those small goodbyes can be strung like a necklace for some semblance of closure.

Someday I will write about the National City house —about the grandfather clock that interrupted my sleep on the quarter-hour when I visited, about the bars on the windows that became standard neighborhood décor, about the removal of a bedroom wall to form an extension to the living room, a space that years later accommodated my mother’s rented hospice bed.

Dog next to ceramic dog and statue of Virgin MaryWeirdly, I have few photos of the interior of theGarden gnome and St. Francis statue house. It was my mother’s front yard that fascinated me the most. And I have pictures of the details but not one of the yard in its entirety. For a while, until the memory fades, my brain will readily conjure the pieces into a whole. But of the details, these are among my favorites: the statue of the Virgin Mary accompanied by two dogs, one real and one ceramic, and the statue of St. Francis gazing heavenward paired with a googly-eyed gnome in the background.

After my mother had the yard cemented over and a gazebo installed, I often sat in its hot shade, my elbows and feet poking at the dirt and cobwebs that collected in all the corners and crevices. I basked in the company of ceramic gnomes, religious statuary, and plastic deer, ducks, and frogs scattered in various buddy combinations around the yard. Here are my siblings on the day they left the house forever, posing in the gazebo stripped of its cramped patio furniture, denuded of its debris, and absent the surrounding artificial fauna. Five people standing in a gazebo in the front yard of a house That house that anchored me to National City is no longer part of my life. Now when I visit my sisters, I’ll head to a neighborhood in South San Diego, just a little over three miles from the old house that is someone else’s now. I’m looking forward to seeing their new smaller, yardless surroundings, to sitting on their porch to take in the vibe. I’ll miss the gnomes and saints and pretend wildlife.  Yes, there’s gnome place like home, but there is life beyond gnomes. There will be new things for me to observe and contemplate and imagine into fiction.




  1. Sandy Parker on December 14, 2021 at 11:35 am

    I love this story and it makes me miss our house even more.

    • Donna Miscolta on December 14, 2021 at 11:40 am

      I think we’ll always miss it.

  2. Pam on December 14, 2021 at 1:55 pm

    I little heart break every time I realize it’s not the Miscolta house anymore 😢

    • Donna Miscolta on December 14, 2021 at 4:35 pm

      Yeah, it’ll be weird not to spend time there when I visit now.

  3. Debra Egley Peters on December 14, 2021 at 11:16 pm

    Wonderful story. We grew up on Mariposa Place until 1968 then moved to Bonita. I’m living there now. My parents built both houses. I miss our old neighborhood so much. Was driving back and went by the old house. The previous owners had really let it go downhill. It broke by heart. The other day the car in front of me pulled into driveway and got out. We went up and turned around and came back. The house looked so much better!!! It warmed my heart!! I walked up to them and told them I had grown up there. Told them how great the house looked and what a wonderful neighborhood it had been for everybody to grow up in. I was so lucky. They invited me in to see the interior. It made my day!!! They were a young couple doing the work themselves. Their 3 year attached herself to me. It looked so great! They’re still working on it but what a great job they’re doing and what a sweet couple. They made my year by trusting me enough to have me in. I hope they have as much happiness there as we did.❤️

    • Donna Miscolta on December 14, 2021 at 11:47 pm

      So great that you were able to see the interior of the house you grew up in. And nice to know that young family is caring for the house so well!

  4. Reuben Felizardo on December 15, 2021 at 1:27 am

    It will forever be “The Miscolta’s house”!!!

    • Donna Miscolta on December 15, 2021 at 1:43 am

      I think we left traces of our DNA in the woodwork.

  5. Joann Farias on December 15, 2021 at 9:49 pm

    How wonderful to have such an anchor for your work.

    • Donna Miscolta on December 15, 2021 at 10:13 pm

      Thanks, Joann! Hope your work is going well.

  6. Gayle Kaune on December 16, 2021 at 2:23 am

    So often we make fun at our parents attachment to “kitsch” but your writing about it exudes such a fondness and love that I so appreciate. Thank-you.

    • Donna Miscolta on December 16, 2021 at 11:00 am

      Thank you, Gayle.

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